An American in Berlin
28 May, 2018
With each passing year, the world is just a little more different than the world into which I was born. Some of that is about technology, sure. Some of it is about the environment or politics. But also, on some very basic level, it’s simply about the people who are in this world. And, more to the point, the people who aren’t. Among the latter group may now be numbered my Uncle Art, né Arthur Levine and finally Mr. Arturo LeMay.
Which – and OK yes, I’m getting off track kind of early here – is a bit ironic. The name, I mean. Because Art was a pretty religious dude. No, that’s not quite right. I don’t think he was particularly religious. He didn’t keep kosher, so far as I know. I’m not sure how many holidays he “celebrated” in the religious sense of the word; although he was at every Seder of my life until this year.
But he went to schul three times a week. He was very pro-Israel in that old-school, unquestioning sort of way; the way which my generation – and those younger than me – are finding increasingly difficult to be. And the dude could beast through a page of Hebrew like it was nobody’s business. Though I don’t actually know if he could understand the language. But he could read it off the page, and he could do it with the oldschool Yiddish pronunciation, where all the final tav’s sounded like “S”s; not the way people my age were taught.
The point is, his Judaism – however secular it might have been – was a huge part of his identity. So yeah, I always found it more than a little ironic that he would change his name. Because “Levine” is a pretty big deal name in Judaism. It’s of the priest class, right up there with Cohen. It’s not a Euro-Yiddish invention like Lindenberg (Mountain of the Linden-Tree), my mother’s maiden name; or Starr, and who even knows what the origin is there. Levine – the Levis – goes all the way back to the Torah.
So why would he give that up for the totally non-Jewish sounding LeMay? Because he liked the way it sounded. But it was a very Art thing to do. He could be eccentric like that. The dude had his own way of making sense of shit. Like anti-Semitism. More than once he said Jews could be more anti-Semitic than gentiles; ‘self-hating Jews’ was, I think, the term he used. But he also said that Arabs couldn’t be anti-Semitic. Because the Arabs are themselves a Semitic people. So there you go. In Art’s world, there were anti-Semitic Jews and non-anti-Semitic death-to-Israel Arabs.
Or the fact that although he’d be at schul every Saturday, he’d insist he wasn’t religious. Called himself a ‘fraud.’ Sure Art. You read Hebrew. You practically lived at the synagogue. But you weren’t religious. As you wish.
He was the the last Patriarch standing. That’s a bit weird to think about. All the grandparents were already gone. So Art was the last of that generation. That’s fucking weird, I’m sorry. To look at my parents, my aunts and uncles and realize, shit, they’re the patriarchs now. Or matriarchs. They’re the grandparents now. The Olds. Which knocks me back a generation too. That knocks me into the Aunts & Uncles generation, rather than the Children & Cousins generation. With Art’s passing, I became a generation older. I’m just realizing this as I’m typing, btw. So, you know, thanks for that, Art.
So now it’s Shelly and Don, on my mom’s side. Shelly sits at one head of the Seder table and Don at the other. And this year, I had to read the big Hebrew spiel. Art’s part. The part that actually says, in Shelly’s homemade Hagaddah, “Uncle Art reads:”. Surreal is the word I’m looking for.
Anyway, what about the man himself? What about Arthur “the atomic bomb saved my life” Levine? Lemme start by saying he was a tough motherfucker. The short, red-headed Jewish kid from the Bronx who volunteered to carry the big Browning Automatic Rifle in the army. The dude who took over his father’s business and made it big. The dude who ran marathons. The dude who went back to college – cut short by the war – and got a degree from Columbia when he was already a million years old. Those are some pretty serious achievements.
Soldier. Businessman. Athlete. Student. All of those words describe Arturo. But the word I would choose, if I had to pick just one, would be this. Storyteller. That man could spin a yarn. Let’s start with the whole “the atomic bomb saved my life” spiel. We’ve all heard that one a gazillion times.
When I was a kid, there was one major school of thought on our use of The Bomb in WWII, and one minor one. The major school of thought was that it ended the war sooner and saved untold lives. Along with that was the notion that by seeing the power of those early bombs in 1945, later world leaders were sufficiently scared into never pushing the button. The minor school of thought was that even if this were all true, the bombs were so terrible as to be unjustifiable by any argument.
Those were the arguments I heard when I was young, when I was in school. Nowadays, the latter argument seems to be more in vogue. To the point that the term “war crime” is even trotted out to describe their use.
My point here, though, is that Art was one of the last people entitled to a different view by direct personal association. Because he was ticketed for the invasion of Japan. So when the war ended shortly after those two terrible detonations, it meant that rather than dying on a beach, he would spend a couple of years cooling his heels in the Philippines.
And you know what? I don’t know if he thought the bombs were a good thing. I don’t know if he thought we did the right thing in using them. Maybe he did. I don’t know. But he always believed that The Bomb saved his life. And that is almost certainly true. And there aren’t many people left now who can say that.
So yeah, the stories. My favorite thing about Art in the later years was the car trips to Passover and Thanksgiving. We’d drive over the Tap and pick him at his home “upstate” and drive him up to Connecticut with us. And he’d just tell stories the whole way. Stories about how he nearly married some Jewish dame in the late 40’s, but didn’t, “because she was fat.” Or the one about the rich oilman relative, who may or may not have killed an “Irishman,” who may or may not have screwed Indians out of some land, who may or may not have sold dry goods to settlers moving West, but who definitely was cut out of the family because “he didn’t keep kosher.”
There were stories about his time in college. About his military training. About how his, I want to say father, moved from one of the Baltic states to Germany (Frankfurt am Mein) because they needed a Rabbi; and then moved to America.
I once asked him if he could speak Yiddish. He couldn’t. I asked him if his father could. “He could,” he said. “But he didn’t like to. If somebody addressed him in Yiddish, he’d answer in Yiddish; to be polite. But he always said, ‘I’m an American. I speak English.’” And that was Art too. Proudly Jewish. Staunchly pro-Israel. 100% American.
Art had a million stories. And not one of them was self-aggrandizing. You knew he had to have been one tough SOB, because only tough SOB’s volunteer to carry the BAR. But when he talked about his military training, it was always about how it affected his schooling, or about how some other guy outperformed him. He wasn’t religious, he was a “fraud.” But he went to schul more times in one week than I’ve been in the last decade. He talked about business trips to Asia but he never let on how successful his business was. He talked about about business trips to Puerto Rico, but never mentioned that he could understand Spanish quite well and could even speak it a bit.
He had a sister, Ferna. She had Down Syndrome. She was in an institution or a home or something; not totally sure on the deets. The point is, yeah, of course other people visited her. But he visited her every single week. And you know what you never heard stories about? That.
A few years back, we were over his house. And he had this room full of old junk. Mementos, pictures, awards, all that kind of shit. Anyway, I found the damnedest thing. It was a framed letter to a rabbi on his mom’s side of the family, so a Coblenz; maybe it was an uncle, I’m not sure. The point is, it was a personally addressed letter from FDR thanking this rabbi for some small service. I’d need to see the letter again. I don’t know if he had served on some religious council, or given some kind of advice or what. But it was a thank-you letter from Franklin fucking Delano fucking Roosevelt. I mean, come on, that’s kind of a big deal. Yeah, well, he never spoke about that either.
So as I’m writing this, I’m texting back and forth with my mom, asking for little clarifications here and there. And she reminded me that I have a couple of recordings of him from the last years. I have one on my phone, where I asked him a few questions and just let him go. It’s only about two minutes. But sure enough, it’s the whole “the atomic bomb saved my life” spiel.
And so, just two little things I want to add to that story. There was no glory in it, no joy. He simply said, “I was fortunate.” He also said he enlisted because “the army paid for six months of NYU.” What a good Jewish boy. The goal wasn’t war, it was an education.
More important than that though, is simply the fact that I have his voice. Because people don’t sound like that no more. See, he had this oldschool Bronx accent. And let’s be clear here. Not the stereotypical “New York” accent from old movies. Not “dese, dem ‘n’ dose.” Not “I’ll meetcha at tree’o’clock on toity-toid ‘n’ toid.” No, it’s far more subtle, but also far more real.
Mel Blanc once described his choice of voice for Bugs Bunny as being a cross between a Brooklyn and Bronx accent. Because Bugs was a wiseguy, and that’s where wiseguys came from. And if you think you can tell the difference between a 1930’s Brooklyn accent and a 1930’s Bronx accent, I think you’re full of shit. But whatever is the Bronx part of Bugs Bunny’s voice, that’s what Art sounded like.
And I gotta tell y’all. It’s beautiful.
And maybe it doesn’t matter to other people. Maybe it only matters to me, because I’m interested in language. But when Art died, that sound died with him. That voice died with him. There ain’t nobody left in my life who sounds quite like that anymore. But I’m sure as shit glad I can still go back and listen to it now.
But maybe it doesn’t just matter to me. Because I know I’ve heard my mom talk about the way Carol’s booming “Hi!” could fill a room. My point is, you don’t just remember the person. You remember how they sounded. It’s really a sort of Proustian experience. A sort of auditory madeleine. He says having never read Proust.
But yeah. I can still hear Carol’s warm and grand greetings; which, btw, was also Herb’s warm and grand greeting. I can still hear Ida’s glottal stops, how she would pronounce ‘dentist’ as den’ist. I can still hear Steve’s absolutely classic Brooklyn. Just as I can hear Daitz’ baritone “Well, Dave…”. Or how, on the phone, Mike sounded exactly like my dad.
And it makes me treasure the sound of those who are still around. My dad’s very subtle but unmistakable Brooklyn which 30+ years on Long Island haven’t dimmed; totally different than Steve’s btw. My mom’s sharp, elbows-out Brooklyn when she gets mad; totally different than my dad’s. Jay’s ‘Vinny Baggadonuts’ Brooklyn, different from all of them. To say nothing of Margaret’s again totally different Sicilian-Italian Brooklyn, which yields the wonderfully hypercorrective vodker.
So, always when people die, come the inevitable questions of regret. Art had his. He regretted never marrying in general, and, towards the end, never marrying Linda specifically. Man, Linda was a character. I didn’t know her well, so keep that in mind. But she had this gracious southern accent; I don’t know from where. And she had all these wacky southern idioms, all of which escape me at the moment. But she was probably Art’s best friend. And I’m fairly certain they were a thing at some point. It never worked out though. She had MS, which may have had everything – or nothing – to do with it. In any case, she died quite a few years back.
But towards the end, you could tell he missed her. And you could tell he was lonely, which was tough. In the last few years, he would talk about how he wished he’d gotten married. To which my dad would invariably reply with something along the lines of, “Trust me, Art, you’re better off.” But it was just a joke to try and make him feel better. And he appreciated the sentiment. He’d play along. But yeah, that was kind of sad.
On the other hand, he loved his family. He was close with Cookie, I know. And my mom would always call him. But – for me at least – he wasn’t an easy guy to get close to. “Demonstrative” is not a word that comes to mind. Which should not be mistaken for not caring.
He was always asking about Germany. Always asking if I was happy. If I enjoyed teaching. And, not for nothing, always asked if there was anti-Semitism in Germany. Because the Jewish identity was always central with him. And now, as I write this, I’m wondering if that also didn’t play a role in him and Linda never really getting together. Because when he talked about the fatty he didn’t marry back in the 40’s, he never failed to mention that she was, if nothing else, Jewish.
Oh! And the worst insult in his book – at least towards another Jew – was that they were “of the shtetl.” Shtetl is the Yiddish word for the backwater ghettos which Jews used to inhabit in Eastern Europe before…well, you know. But if somebody was “of the shtetl,” they were low class, uneducated, uncouth, worthy of derision. It’s witheringly brutal and wonderfully oldschool. My cousin Jay (Mike’s son) is the only person of my generation whom I know that still uses it. And even then, it’s always ironic and spoken with an old-timey Jew-y accent; either preceded or followed by an “Oy!”
So yeah, regrets. I regret that I didn’t know the man better. I regret that I didn’t get more of his stories down by recording. Because already the finer details escape me, and I can only paint them with broad strokes.
But these are small things. The dude made it all the way to 91. Lived at home, just until the very end. Drove his own car until he was 89 or 90. Which, OK, may not have been the best idea. Ran his business right up to the end. Was mentally with it until the end. When I was home in March, he knew exactly who I was, knew I was living in Germany, The Whole 9. So what if he asked the same questions 20 times? He knew who he was asking them to, and they were on point. We should all be so lucky.
I feel like I’m walking around with dead people in my back pocket. Hm. There’s probably a better way to phrase that. What I mean is, there are people – dead people – who are always with me. Daitz, right? For as long as I read Homer – which will be as long as I live – Daitz will always be sitting across from me, nudging my pronunciation, carefully noting the verb tense and debating my interpretations with a deep, gentle, “Well, Dave…”.
My grandfather will always be the measure by which the Starr family judges itself. Whether that be the love of music, the love of learning or just curiosity about the world. If he’s not around to be the patriarch anymore, he’s very much the spirit animal. Nobody who knew him doesn’t still get emotional when he comes up.
And now Art. By way of a slight detour for the goyim, the Hebrew word for the number ‘five’ is chamesh. From this, we get the word chumash, which means “The Five,” meaning the five books of Moses, the Torah. The use of the article matters here. When we say a Torah, we mean the scroll, whichever one happens to be in the ארון קדש – the ark – at your local schul. When we talk about the Torah, we mean the content, the thing generally. All this to say that a chumash is not a Torah, but it is a bound-book edition of the Torah.
All this to say, I have Art’s chumash. Well, really, Cookie’s chumash, which Art gave to her as a gift, which she then gave to me. He inscribed it too, you know. He wrote:
February 26, 2005
To my Niece “Fran”
I hope you enjoy this Chumash. Happy Birthday.
Two things about this are great. First, “Fran” in quotes? So her name is Francine, but she goes by Cookie. So like, if you were gonna put a name in quotes, wouldn’t it be “Cookie”? But he always called her Fran. So in Art-World, her real name is Francine; obviously the shorter “Fran” deserves quotes. Classic Art. Also, “enjoy”? I mean, this book is great for a lot of things. Cultural connection. Learning. Family heirloom. Whatever you want. But enjoyment? Uh, not so much.
Whatever. The point is, it came from Art. And this is the book that I work with. Every day. Remember my whole Operation Read the Whole Fucking Torah in a Year thing? The Torah that I’m reading is Art’s chumash. So he’s with me. Every day, when I sit down to read, Art’s there too.
Daitz and Homer. Art and Torah. One more dead guy in my back pocket. If this keeps up, I’m gonna need bigger pants.
So that’s the end. No, that’s not quite right. It’s an end. You say goodbye to the man. And lemme tellya, I’m so glad I got to see him one more time, this last time I was in. So glad I got to say goodbye. Even if I didn’t say the word “goodbye.” Because I’m pretty sure what I actually said was, “Take care of yourself and listen to your doctors. I expect to see you at Passover next year.” But that’ll have to do.
So yeah, it’s an end. It’s the end of his life. It’s the end of an era, even. It’s a different world without him. It’s passed just that much more from the hands of his generation to the hands of the next. But he did his part to shape this world, and my life in it. And whatever I do with my life, it will be what it is for his having been a part of it.
So I raise my glass to you, Arthur Levine. Rest in Peace, Arturo LeMay. You bloody well earned it.
Let me end this with a wish, with a hope. It is my wish that, for many years to come, I will have the great honor at our Passover Seder of reading the Hebrew bit in the Hagaddah marked, “Uncle Art reads:”. And I hope that one day, there will be a child; a child not yet born. And I hope that child will see the words “Uncle Art reads:” and ask, “Who is Uncle Art?” Because on that day, I will say, “Come ‘ere, kid. Lemme tellya a story…”